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Feminized Male

Becoming the girl you are inside and out.

Becoming a Feminized Male

Feminized male is not really a term that you hear all the time. In fact, the majority of the world’s population does not understand the meaning of it and another group know what it is but disapproved of deeply. A lot of people are puzzled as to how this even happens to a male. Just how is he feminized? There are things such as cross dressing involved but that is not all of it. Some men consider it to be a fetish in some way. A man who decides to become feminized involves a bit of domination and submission role playing that happens during the course of becoming feminized. Obviously, not all of these men who choose to be feminized have a dominate partner to help them get to the level they wish to be. Some of these guys just want to have that release of a feminine feeling within them. It builds up until he needs a way to let it out. The only way this can happen is to gather items that can be used in feminization. These are the items that allow them to accomplish their goal. Thus, they become feminized.

Understanding Your Feminized Male

It’s a lot easier to accept a feminized male when she was already transitioning when you met her. What may be more difficult is understanding a long time partner or spouse that is now deciding to take on the transformation. You may not know how to react at first, but try to imagine where they are coming from. Your partner could have been worrying about this decision for months or even years. They do not want to hurt you, and although to some it may feel like a betrayal, it is only self-liberation. They are choosing not to betray themselves any longer. If you are hurting over this decision, they are likely hurting along with you. Try to be patient and know that this is a difficult life path to follow and they would not have picked it if it was not the path to their true happiness. If you can, remain supportive of your partner, and understand that they still have the same personality. They just want to feel at home in their own skin.
How to Accept a Feminized Male

One of the things that most straight and normal people have a very difficult time with is accepting a feminized male. One of the reasons, and perhaps the biggest one, is that this is something of a unique nature. Lots of people would call this sort of behavior “abnormal” or “aberrant” and that is perfectly normal that those particular people feel that way. Those people are closed minded and will not accept anything that is not perfectly in line with what “life” has told them. The best way to accept a male who has chosen to be feminized is to understand that everyone is not the same. Everyone thinks differently and believes unique ideas. You may even be hiding a secret part of yourself from others; parts that you may fear others will not understand. Keep that in mind the next time you see a male dressed in a feminine manner. That person is most likely quite nice and would love to get to know you better.

 

Being a Feminized Male Is Not Easy

Being a feminized male is not something that I take lightly. I have struggled my entire life because I thought there was something about myself that I was missing and, once I found it, I embraced it completely. I have learned the right ways of telling people about my life and I have found plenty of wrong ways of doing it. The wrong ways always ended up with me losing friends and family for a long time. This usually made me feel completely alone in the world and would cause a deep seeded depression to take over my life. But for any other feminized male out there who might be going through the same thing; just give it time and they will either understand that you are still the same person they have always known, or they were not good enough to be in your life to begin with. This goes for friends and especially family as those are the people that are usually the harshest towards you coming out about something like this. Just keep living your own lifestyle, though, and you will see how quickly you can turn around someone’s opinion.